He likes it so he puts a ring on it.


Disclaimer: This post is personal, please take note that I need the courage to share this with you. =)

I’ve been sick for the past ten days, so I didn’t really plan anything for my seventh anniversary. I know Bandi isn’t much a planner so usually he would just let me do whatever I wanted and brought me to dinner.

This year, I told him I didn’t want anything fancy for anniversary because I actually wanted to have a bed rest, but then yeah… you got it right, he proposed.

About talking about marriage.

I think all of my friends have been asking about us getting married more than we even really talk about it. I’ve never wanted a marriage myself so I never really bother talking about it. However it’s been two years since we started to live together and once in a while Bandi asked about whether I’m taking this relationship seriously but I never really answered it seriously lahhh. I usually just did silly things and pretended to be deaf.

The moment I realize that he meant what he said was when he brought me to a jewelry store. I was freaking panicking when he suddenly talked fluent diamond with the sales lady. He asked about the carats, clarity, certificate and shits I didn’t know. Holy crap, somebody has done some research!

He asked me what kind of ring I want for my engagement ring, and I was a total bitch, I literally panicked and kept saying let’s go. It happened last year.

About the first attempt.

I accidentally found the receipt of the ring when I tried to find something in Bandi’s ikea box. It was purchased on July 2012. There was a description of the ring in the receipt. About how many carats the diamond is and the other stuffs I didn’t understand. And I saw the price… And it’s fucking non-refundable.

THIS IS A BIG PRESSURE!!!!

Holy crap! I felt like packing my bags and just run the freaking away. I don’t wanna get married yet!!! How if he proposed to me? My life was about to oveeeerrr! Nooo!!!

On October 2012 he surprised me with a trip to Bandung, and I had the feeling that he’s gonna propose. Then I told him, “If you’re gonna propose, please don’t. I’m not ready and I’m gonna say no, and we would break up and it all turned ugly. And I don’t wanna break up with you. Just give me more time and be more patience.” (For the record, he was gonna propose.)

After that, the relationship went downhill. Bandi didn’t understand why I wasn’t ready and why I was being so difficult. A lot of my friends knew about this and I didn’t blame them to think that I was a heartless bitch and that I didn’t deserve a good guy like Bandi.

I wanted a proposal, who doesn’t want a fairy tale, right? But I just didn’t feel it was the right time. Bandi had just lost his grandma and I felt like he rushed things because he felt guilty that his grandma did ask him to marry me but then she passed away. And I still believed that there were some unfinished business between us, like talking about future and stuffs.

It is very hard to explain and you must know me well enough to understand my reasons but anyway, let’s move on.

All I know is… I’m glad Bandi never gave up on me. =)

About being ready.

I remember people kept saying that you’re never gonna be ready for marriage, that you just have to go the hell with it. Well, you’re wrong!!!! I don’t wanna just jump into it and figure out later. I don’t! I don’t wanna take the risk that I could regret for a lifetime. I’m a risk taker but not for a marriage. I wanna be hundred percent ready and wanting it like crazy and I will never going back!

So, during my bad patch of relationship with Bandi, this happened.

The whole missing the flight thing was like an epiphany.

I sill remember when Bandi arrived home after midnight and I saw him totally differently. This is the guy who went all the fucking troubles with me and still stayed. I’ve been complicated, unreasonable, difficult and selfish and yet he’s still there, never even complain once. He always ALWAYS believes in me.

And he took the last flight home going all the shits just to make sure I wasn’t home alone. And I felt like my life went on a flashback… He did fight for me in front of his family, he defended me through the bad years, he always protects me, always tries to make me happy and makes sure I’m always alright.

He left USA for me, the thing that I thought he won’t ever do. I just almost lost all of his important documents by leaving it in airport and he still forgave me and flew home for me.

And yet, I didn’t want to marry this guy? WHAT AM I NUTS?????

I remember he hugged me that night and I knew it for a second, that was where I belong for the rest of my life.

And….

I was finally ready.

About wanting it.

After that missing the flight moment, I caught myself daydreaming about being Mrs. Cahaya. It felt silly for a while and I was so embarrassed of myself but then I found it so fun so what the hell. I daydreamed about calling him hubby, about saying the vow (I even wrote one haha) and saying I do and girls stuffs like that.

Then I kept hinting him like asking “is the ring this big?” while showing him my booger. LOL

About the ring

I knew he already bought the diamond ring and I would feel so guilty to trouble him but to be honest, I don’t want diamond. I want an emerald.

I fell instantly in love when I saw Kate’s engagement ring (which belonged to Princess Diana) but I didn’t want Sapphire of course and also couldn’t see myself wearing the plain diamond. I want an engagement which yells it totally belongs to May. And I always like emerald and the fact that emerald is my birth stone.
I’ve googled about emerald and it’s very rare to find a small carats of emerald to be crafted as a ring, it means it would have to be a bigger size of the stone and it would be expensive. So I was so dilemmatic of whether I should tell Bandi about this.

However the conversation about the ring came up and he asked me my dream engagement ring. I told him I always wanted an emerald crafted on a rose gold because rose gold compliments the sparkle of the emerald and it matches my skintone and of course because it’s so pretty.

(Later on he told me the story of how he went almost nuts looking for an emerald that he could afford. LOL. To make the story short, he exchange the diamond with the emerald after he finally found the franchised jewelry store that would accept the exchange.)

So when he proposed and opened the ring box, I was stunned.

It was the prettiest ring I’ve ever seen in my life. (Probably also the effect of euphoria) The one and only, an oval shaped emerald, surrounded by diamonds in a rose gold. I know this is so superficial, but goddammit, I am so freaking happy!!!

I've always wanted an emerald!!!

I’ve always wanted an emerald!!!

About the Proposal

I can’t tell the details because it would be so looonnnggg and of course so many personal stories involved. You must know me for lifetime to really understand the reasons why Bandi planned every detail. About why he chose the Con te Partire to ask me for a slow dance and the seventy seven red roses and the road trip and everything.

His plan was this… He wanted to do seven things that we never done together for our seventh anniversary. (Trust me Bandi and I did almost every possible thing we could haha) He created some kind of continuous cards that’s written the hint of the thing.

The fifth thing was an impromptu flight. He brought me to the city I love the most.

I was totally surprised! And I didn’t pack proper clothes lah. Hahaha. (I didn’t even pack shampoo so I had to wash my hair with Hotel’s shampoo and my hair went on sapu ijuk mode.) Anyway, he was so freaking sweet and he brought me to Maxi’s, my favorite restaurant, which we had our date long long time ago. He reserved the place on the balcony, a place when we used to see sunset on New Year’s eve.

He made a video and left me alone to watch the video. I was crying like a little baby, couldn’t contain my happiness. I can’t show anyone, even my bestfriend, the video, because for once, I want to keep this only for myself. =)

Bandi was pouring his heart out on the video, leaving his soul naked and open and if it was me, I would want to do it only for the one person I love. =)

He also gave me four photos that represent our seven years together and our future dream together. After the video ended, he showed up with seventy seven stalks of rose, and my bestfriend Gery behind, holding a camera, videotaping us. HOLY CRAP I knew it that moment that he was gonna propose!!!

So yeah, he gave me the roses and got on one knee, took out the box of ring and said the magic words.

The funny thing was, when he said, “will you…” I at once nodded my head because I saw the ring!!! HAHAHAHA! (I’m so shameless) However he asked “Will you marry me” and I was like a doggie doll on a car’s dashboard, kept nodding my head. He laughed and asked, “What???”

And I shouted “YESSSS!!!”

=)

Yes!

Yes!

I’m engaged!!!

Not only engaged.

I’m engaged… to the love of my life, my best friend.

I can’t believe that I would ever want a marriage. But now it’s happening, it doesn’t feel scary. I kinda can’t wait to be his wife. LOL.

He likes it so he puts a ring on it! Haha!

He likes it so he puts a ring on it! Haha!

And I also can’t stop staring at my ring and smile everytime I see it… over and over again. It’s so freaking pretty I feel like a princess. Hahaha. I talked to Dian about the ring and it turns out I’m not the only shameless girl here. She was also crying like baby when Dan-Dan was about propose to her and once she saw the ring, it was like a magic that made a girl smile forever!!! Hahaha.

I never had a fine jewelry in my life before. Seriously, never. You know all my accessories are purchased through ebay! LOL. This is the first real thing I’ve ever had and it’s so goddamn freaking pretty!!!! It sparkles everytime I see it like talking to me. =) And I looooove the color and how the diamonds around it compliments the emerald. I love my engagement ring I’m so shallow!!! Hahahaha.

Here's another angle of the ring.

Here’s another angle of the ring.

And here's another one. =D

And here’s another one. =D

Ok, enough with that. (You get it how much I love it)

About the aftermath

The first thing in my mind after saying Yes was… I’m so gonna tell Ulen about this!!! And you know what??? She coincidentally were coming to Bandung the next day for some reunion event!!! Thank you Universe!! It’s so meant to be!!!

So the next day I spent my day with Ulen, asked her to be my maid of honor and  took this photobox! Haha. I also asked her to help me distribute the 77 Roses to every women we met at Paris Van Java (because it’s impossible for me to bring back all the flowers to Singapore, right?) It was so cute how women react to stranger handing over roses. They all accepted it! Haha!

Me and my maid of honor.

Me and my maid of honor, and my sapu ijuk mode hair. LOL

After I talked to her face to face, I publicly posted it on socmed and again, I loved the attention. Hahaha! (shameless, still shameless!!!)

Then I told Strawberry and other close friends, my mom and my sister. While Bandi of course has successfully made his brother, sisters and mom figuratively hippie dancing. So yeah, it’s pretty big happy news for both of us. =)

My mom has also already known because Bandi did tell my mom and my dad before actually proposed to me. Awww isn’t he the sweetest? He asked my Dad for a permission to take good care of his daughter. OH MY GOD I’m melted…

We also have set the date, because I told him, according to Gilmore Girls, you’re not really engaged until there’s a ring and a date. So we have set the date. We’re gonna get married on 7th June 2014, exactly 8 years when I first said yes to the question “will you be my girlfriend?” =)

(Or actually it’s just Bandi who can’t remember too many dates so he pack it all into one date? WTF?)

Anywayyyy, we’re not gonna bother too much about the wedding because after that day, I finally realize what I want in my life. I don’t fucking care of how my wedding would turn out to be, I just wanna be his wife. Period.

(and the fact that I still need to plan my Europe Trip holy crap!)

(and also the fact that my maid of honor is having an OCD so she’s gonna plan everything. HAHA)

And this is the end of my single life… no more flirting with cute guys (darn it). Who would have known, of all the people, I’m gonna settling down this fast. Hahaha. I’m getting married. Geez, still not get used to say it, “I’m getting married.”

So, for all the guys who are secretly in love with me, better luck next lifetime! Hahaha. Zero chance from this second! And that’s including you, Cristiano Ronaldo!! Yeah you! I’ve had enough waiting for you! HAHAHA

About what I feel.

Right now, I’m still over the moon. (unless the fact that my voice is gone because of the flu T.T) I feel content and happy. I am one hundred percent sure that this is what I want, marrying him. And that everything really does happen for a reason. Universe really listens to my prayer, sending me signs and stuffs. If he proposed to me last October, it might not be this perfect. Good things really does happen to those who wait. =)

I won’t have cold feet or second thought. I might have bad days and we might fight, but I won’t have second thought, I can promise that.

Thank you for being so patience and for making this seven years all about me, sweetie pie. When we ate satay and I requested a song from the old man and he sang The Beatles’ I will, I hope you knew it was truly from my heart to you. =)

I love you. Always have and always will.

Kalistus Mikhael Subandi Cahayaaaaaa, I’m yours!!!!

Cheers,

May, Mrs. Cahaya to be.

P.S Finally I’m gonna have a surname!!! Hahahahah!

Here's a bonus photo of Bandi and Brownie for reading until the end. =)

Here’s a bonus photo of Bandi and Brownie for reading until the end. =)

87 thoughts on “He likes it so he puts a ring on it.

  1. again and again, i’m so happy for you and bandi, may :)
    you’ll never get ready, gw sendiri kadang masih mepertanyakan diri sendiri koq gw mau dilamar sama si remon yaaa hahahaha but I believe you’ll enjoy the journey as much as I do. it’s not going to be a smooth ride but it’s worth it! oh may! i’m tearing! hahaha .. padahal gw udah selametin di facebook, di instagram juga .. but once again, congratsssss meitiriyana!!!!!!!!! :D

    I never meet you, soon i’m going to meet you .. kopi darat! hahaha so allow me to give my virtual hug first before I hug you in the real world!! hahahaha ..

    XOXOXOXOXOXOXO cups!! btw, the ring is so pweetttyyyyyy ;)

  2. OH MY GODDDD!! This is really happening hahaha.. Cant say how happy i am that u both finally make it this far and how universe arrange things so we can meet right after the moment hahaha..

    Im so gonna post about this (setelah gw sembuh akibat ktularan virus elu muahahaha).
    This is one f the moment i know i wanna always remember :)

    Bandi, u’re soooooooo sweeeettttt yet awesome.
    And i know it, always hv faith on u :)
    Muahhhhhhhhh!!!!

    Xixo,
    Maid f honor yg terus panik krn hrs diet, nyari baju n direpotin utk meritan *yg masih taun depan* LOL

    • Hahaha, You have one year to lose weight, god, how much do you wanna lose hahhhh?!!!
      Percaya deh, once you plan my wedding, you’ll lose weight without even trying. I’m a demanding bride!!! HAHAHA

  3. Congratulations to both of you.

    Was afraid you hated wedding parties. But things have mended now: congratulations. Great guy, brilliant ring.

    This bloke is awesome! That’s the way to do it right and perfect. Really! It would have been a solution had he been there to tell me in time. Now I know how my wife would have loved to be proposed…

    • Ahh Colson, always sweet. That bloke is my bloke =’)
      I bet you did an amazing proposal too, look how it turn out? DECADES!!!
      I would be lucky if Bandi and I would be half happy like you and the Mrs!

  4. wahhh mayyy! congratsss yahhh.. gw deg2an and excited loh baca blog lu. ahahaha *loh? siapa coba yg mau kawinn.. hahaha.. semoga semua persiapan lancar yahh mayy.. God bless you both. Mr and soon to be Mrs. Cahaya.. hehehe..

  5. Mayyyy..Hahhaha :D Gara2 dirimu daku kemarin sampe langsung bikin Instagram biar bisa like2 fotonyaaaa..hahah.. Sumpahhh dehh seneeng banget gw dari kmren liat tl lu…Selamaaatt yahhh.. :D Asli ikutan berbunga baca postingan ini, tar pulang suruh si Ai baca ah.. Siapa tau di terinspirasi..lhooo.. :D

  6. Congratssss!! :D G jadi baca postingan2 yg lama2 & kalian emang cocok 1 sama lain :D Gsampe senyum2 baca postingan ini, romantis banget itu proposal nya :D Congrats again & semoga lancar persiapannya ya :D

  7. CONGRATULATIONSS MAY AND BANDI!!!!! you know how excited i was when i read the title, and i was even happier when finishing reading this post haha. I just only want to comment one thing, you looked soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo happy! I can see it from the photos, and from your post. Unbelievable may, you were very sceptical about marriage, and now you just cant wait to be mrs. cahaya hahaha. very very very happy for you and bandi :D

    • Ahahahaha dea, I am indeed sooooooooooooo happy (buset lo ngetiknya panjang bener)
      But yeah, I am. :)
      I hope bandi and i would be as happy as you and utin as husband and wife de… :)
      Marriage is surely another thing and I’m ready for it. :)

  8. Waa..congrats ya. Yang ijo2 emang berkilau banget hahaha… Eniwei klo maid of honor lu OCD, itu pilihan yang tepat haha soalnya dia bakal beresin segala sesuatu tanpa perlu lu pusingin di hari H :p boleh dunk diintipin video proposalnya *kedip2*

  9. Maaaayy, Bandi sweet banget yaaaa. Ikutan seneng + excited banget bacanya. Congrats yaaa…bakalan gak berasa kok nunggu tgl 7 Juni 2014. Btw cincinnya baguuuss :)

  10. Congratulations, May. I was so overwhelmed that I couldn’t say any beautiful words for you. But really, I’m really happy for you.

    I’m also happy for the fact that your favorite city is Bandung. It was my hometown and the city I love the most in the entire world. The city where I was born and I hope, would be the city where I will take my final breath. I’m so happy that you love this city as much as I do.

    A little fun fact about that Maxi’s restaurant : Before it became Maxi’s, it was a simple but beautiful European Steak restaurant named GLOSIS, and it was my favorite restaurant for it have a very beautiful garden. When I was small, I made a promise to myself that I one day, I would propose my future wife in that restaurant. Sadly, now Glosis is no more, and it become Maxi’s. But I’m glad that this particular place become a special place for you and Bandi.

    Anyway, I wish you two a wonderful year ahead, a wonderful trip to Europe, and I hope we can meet one day =)

    • Iya kep betul. Ih lo sampe tau ttg Glosis ya hahaha. Anak unpar banyak yang cina maxis dr jaman namanya masih glosis, kita suka minta mereka sponsorin makanan kalo bikin event2 gitu. Eh tapi meskipun namanya ganti, menu nya masih sama kok Kep.
      Dan maxis tuh ya asatagaaaaa dapur nya keren mampus!!! Kayak dapur master chef gitu!!!! Ah keren banget lahhhhhhh hahahaha

  11. Wow, congrats! Thanks for sharing the story. He did take some serious efforts to propose to you. And the ring is beautiful. Enjoy your time as someone’s fiancée. It takes a while but you’ll get used to calling him ‘my fiancé’ instead of ‘my boyfriend’.

  12. Ah what a sweet thing you shared with us! congraattss :) :) super happy to hear it. Periode ini adalah periode dimana gw dulu cengar cengir setiap ngeliat cincin tunangan gw hihihi :D Bandi, OMG you are so cool and May…you are so lucky to have a gentleman like him. Nope, you both are lucky to have each other! Enjoy the moments guys!

  13. OMG CONGRATS MAY!!! I felt so excited n touched reading this post. Bandi is such a romantic! Congrats yaaa.. And have fun planning n prepping for the wedding & your marriage life ahead!!

    • Oh and mau bilang jg.. your ring is FABULOUS!!! Not just the ring itself is beautiful, tp I think I can understand how you feel! gw dulu jg pengen punya engagement ring yg bukan typical solitaire white diamond ring aja (tp ga kesampean. wahaha..) and i was looking at different gemstone meanings, birthstones, ring designs, etc… so i can imagine how excited and bahagia nya dapet cincin impian lo…. hehehe…

      • Thank you Lia. =)
        It still feels surreal, and I still keep staring at the ring. Hahaha.
        Anyway dulu kamu wedding di Sgp atau Indo? Aku maw ROM dan church wedding disini jadi aku butuh rekomen tempat sewa wedding gown dan make up artist kalo kamu tahu. =)

      • Aku dulu ROM, church & reception di Indo sih akhirnya. Tp I can email you contact nya one make-up artist krn dulu aku ada pre-wed di Sg (perlu photographer jg? though I know lo ga suka pre-wed.. hahahaha…). Kalo sekalian church wedding di sini berarti ROM nya lsg di gereja juga kan ya.. itu tinggal contact gereja yg lo mau sih & daftar ke ROM website. Oh iya… kalian akan nikah di Catholic church? Gw dulu ikutan Engage Encounter di Sg – yg 3 day retreat untuk mariage prep. Another option is to go for Marriage Prep Course (dateng bbrp kali ketemu father nya…). Let me know if you need more info..

      • Yep, was thinking to do ROM di catholic church tapi nggak terima sakramen pernikahannya karena aku bukan Katolik (cuma Bandi aja yang katolik). Mungkin mesti nanya dulu ke Father nya yah, boleh atau nggak.
        Iya aku nggak prewed Lia, aku cuma butuh di-make-up-in aja buat ROM nya, trus langsung terbang ke Indo buat celebration nya. =)
        Boleh2, nanti aku minta kontak make up artist nya yaaaa. Aku masih survey2 aja enaknya gimana. =)

  14. mwaaaa… maaaayyy… congratz for you and bandi… gua excited banget bacanya hehehe… keliatan juga dari tulisan lu kalo lu hepi berat hehehehe… once again, congratz… and welcome to the club bride to be hahahaha…

  15. Hi, I have been secretly reading ur blog and i really enjoy ur stories. and in this special moment of yours, i’d like to congratulate u and bandi. may everything turns out to be the best for both of you. and yes, you seems so happy! I can tell from the way you write. Congrats once again :)

  16. Gw mao ngeramein lagi ah di sini, walopun uda di FB. Gile ya, May… ini baru THE MOST SENSATIONAL NEWS OF THE YEAR! Sumprit gw sampe kebawa mimpi, padahal kenal lo in real life pun kaga… LOL.

    Gw angkat topi buat Bandi deh!! Pengen gw salamin sambil tereak kenceng-kenceng “WELL DONE! lo berhasil menjinakkan wanita satu ini” :p

    Seperti pernah gw bilang sebelum2nya, gw menghargai banget cewe-cewe kaya elo yang skeptis tentang marriage, di antara cewe-cewe lain yang mimpi jadi penganten sejak kecil…karena ketika akhirnya lo mengambil keputusan kayak gini, dunia tahu seberapa SERIUS nya elo!

    Akhir kata…kalo kata temen gw mah…merid itu cuma ada 2 macam: ENAK sama ENAK BANGET!
    LOL…I know it’s just a joke, coz when you’re married to the wrong person, it would be like hell on earth, definitely. Tapi…. buat gw mah merid itu ENAK BANGET, dan hopefully buat elo juga ya!

    Ih seneng banget deh dengernya. Mao dong kopdar beneran :D

    • ah ah gw lupa komenin cincinnya! waktu gw pertama liat di FB, gw udah rada mengernyitkan dahi tapi sambil mikir si Bandi kok seleranya nyeleneh ya. Don’t get me wrong… It’s really really beatuful… tapi sungguh sungguh gak typical, karena dalam kepala gw, ya laki rata-rata langsung milih diamond aja tanpa pikir panjang. Hihi. Tapi beneran cakep, mirip cincinnya jeng Kate, dan…rose gold nya cantik!

    • Hahahaha gue baca komen ini kayak berasa diteriakin elo di depan muka gie sampe muncrat2 gitu ludahnya. XD
      Iya iya, akhirnya gue terjinakan nih, abis menjinakan gue, si pria bersangkutan langsung sakit dong demam tinggi, bahahahaa apa maksudnya itu yah?
      I hope nothing’s gonna change after i get married because what i have with him now is exactly enak banget hahahaha. Mgkn cuma statusnya aja yg berubah yah din, i hope everything stays the same. :)
      Thank you for your excitement, jangan teriak2 melulu ntar anak lo stress tuh emaknya berisik! Ayo kopdar sebelum lo beranak bo!

  17. I simply thought this will be just a dream year ago. Butt…see how God is working kan.. You finally find yourself ready when you are least expected. Blog congratulation from Strawberry! The ring is typically the one you saw when we spent the time in PVJ in Feb yah! Bravo Subandiii!

  18. May, a big, heaping CONGRATULATIONS to you & your new fiancée! Wow, Bandi is such a thoughtful and romantic kind of dude. Lucky you,girl :)
    So happy for you! this is such great news :)

  19. /kemaren mo komen inet mati, jadi baru post sekarang/ /ngetiknya sih kemaren hahaha/
    .
    agaaaaiiin, congratulation cece!!!!! finally the story is here :) like what I’ve said, I’m waiting for you to spill the story /bricked/
    Me too!! I love Lady Di’s ring! But I’ve always wanted my ring to have emerald too!!! but not because it’s my birthstone, but merely because Indonesia is Zamrud Khatulistiwa lol
    anyway, the funny thing is few days before you posted the photo I just suddenly remembered you and got a feeling that you’re going to get proposed soon. That time I thought that I was being random and totally absurd, but it turns out to be true~ hahahahaa
    waaa will the Europe trip become a honeymoon trip then? /bricked

    p.s. I think it’s okay to wait until you’re ready.. and for Ko Bandi to wait for it, it’s very very sweet and thoughtful :) you’re very lucky! <3

    • Hahaha Zamrud kathulistiwa ya? Lucu juga. Hihi.
      Wahhh masa sih, ke-absurd-an kamu ternyata ada benernya juga yaaahh! Harusnya kamu kasih taw cece dong chelle, biar cece bisa at least kutekan dulu biar foto tangannya bagus! Hahahahah (penting banget)

      • weks, komen ini kelewatan ngga nongol di notif /gubrak
        iyaaa XD soalnya dari dulu tuh suka banget sama istilah Zamrud Khatulistiwa nya Indo… kayanya dulu sebutan itu ngebanggain banget :3 /sekarang mah udah kaya lumpur khatulistiwa kali ya?/
        wuahahahahahaa~ tapi beneran waktu itu aku kira akunya yg lagi aneh lho ce /plak

        betewe setelah aku cari2 ternyata birthstone ku itu sapphire.. krik krik

  20. May salam kenal dulu ya selama ini aku baca post-mu dan suka baca komen-mu di jurnal org, dan aku mbayanginnya kau emang ‘ant’i pernikahan. Whoaaaa, ini surprise banget bacanya, so sweeeet. Both of you are lucky to have each other. Enjooooy the journey ya.Nikahnya di Bandung ajalah tahun depan hihihi

  21. May, I just know you recently dan g gak tau history loe but I am so happy for you and Bandi!!! Congrats!!! And the ring is sssooooo prreetttyyyyyy!!!!

  22. Aku telat banget komennya!!! tapi daripada ngga ada sama sekali…. congrats ya May! Senang buat kamu yang udah menemukan pasangan hidupmu… semoga bisa lancar jaya ya persiapan pernikahannya…dan tentu saja semoga pernikahannya langgeng sampai kakek nenek!!!
    AMIN!!!

  23. may… *seka aer mata*
    baca cerita elo ini gw seneng happy ikutan ngerasain cengiran elo tp kok ada part bikin tersentuhnya juga, gw ngeliat kalimat pertama aja udah daleeeeem artinyaaaa!!! super belated congrats ya neng… Siap ga siap beneran berdua itu lebih enak dari pada satu sendirian, May :)

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